Veterans star in 'tribute to friendship' www.azstarnet.com ® : Published: 01.11.2008 Veterans star in 'tribute to friendship' By Sherilyn Forrester SPECIAL TO THE ARIZONA DAILY STAR Award-winning New York actress Kathleen Chalfant never really wanted to do anything but perform. But the respected actress, who won the Obie, Drama Desk, Lucille Lortel and Outer Critics awards for "Wit," took a while to acknowledge her desire. "I had a brother 14 years older than I — he was the glamorous gay older brother — who gave me the original cast album of 'My Fair Lady.' Of course, we would act out all the parts. And my grandmother took me to see wonderful movies — and not just those for children, although I think that's what my parents thought. I was in school plays. I played Hedda Gabbler when I was 17," she says, laughing. "But when I went to Stanford I studied classical Greek. I was getting ready to go to graduate school and my husband asked m...